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Practical Parenting Tips for Everyday Challenges
Puberty is Changing: Why It’s Starting Earlier, Moving Faster, and Demanding More From Us Than Ever
Puberty today isn’t what it was twenty years ago. It's starting earlier, moving faster, and hitting harder emotionally—and the reasons behind it might surprise you. If you're a parent, teacher, or caregiver, here's the real story you can't afford to miss
Conversations Every Parent Should Have with Their Teen About Screen Time
Want your teen to have a healthy relationship with tech? It starts with 4 simple conversations about balance, online identity, and critical thinking. Don’t wait until there’s a problem — start now and have that conversation often. The Parenting Collaborative is here to help parents navigate how and what to talk about with their teens to keep them technologically safe.
Why Your Child’s Friendships Matter More Than You Think
We spend so much time worrying about grades, homework, and test scores… But what if your child’s friend group is actually the secret ingredient to their long-term success? In our latest article, we’re breaking down what this means for emotional intelligence, behavior, and academic growth—and how you, as a parent, can guide your child through one of the most powerful developmental influences: their peers.
How Peer Pressure Can Actually Help Teens Thrive (Backed by Science)
When we think of peer pressure, we often think of risky behavior and negative influence. But what if peer pressure could actually help your teen make better choices? Research shows that adolescents are more influenced by kindness than cruelty—and when supported with the right tools, they're more likely to follow the positive lead. Lets dive into what that means for parenting, and how we can guide teens to thrive in their social world
An Easy Tip For Easily Distracted Children
If you find yourself asking “why is my child so easily distracted?” and wondering how you can help – you’re not alone. All parents at one time or another wonder about their child when you find them doing something totally different when you know that they know they’re supposed to be doing something else. It can be frustrating and a source of conflict when it happens frequently.
More often than not the culprit is sensory overload.
Fixing Insecure Attachment
The attachment relationship between parent and child is a significant topic of concern, parents often question if their child exhibits all the characteristics of a securely attached child. While, no child will meet all the characteristics coupled with a scale of how behaviors to determine attachment. The one thing we love the most about the attachment theory is it only takes one intentional person to change an insecure attachment style.
Letting Go to Help Them Grow
As children get older, especially when they reach adolescent and teen years, there is a need for relinquishing some control over the lives of our children. It’s hard! We are driven by the desire to protect them at all costs. However, that isn’t what children need or want from their parents at this stage in their lives, and decreases the older they get.
How to Handle Children’s Jealousy
Jealousy gets a bad rap and has negative connotation because it’s associated with and exposes our own shortcomings. But in reality, jealousy and comparison of others is a part of human nature. There are two types of jealousy that act as motivators that are explored and how parents can help their children cope with the feeling of jealousy.
How To Build Secure Attachment With Your Child
John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth and their Attachment Theory might not be something you’ve heard of but is a major developmental objective for children to develop with their caregivers, mainly their mothers since they typically act as the primary caregiver in many families. Being able to develop an attachment relationship with caregivers isn’t hard for children to do. However, creating a secure, healthy attachment relationship and reaping the benefits of such relationship is dependent on the parents, their parenting style, and availability of the parents. So, let’s break down attachment and how to provide your child with the care they need to insure a secure attachment.
Persistent Children
Children are naturally persistent and when parents think of qualities we want our children to sustain into their adulthood, persistence is a key quality. But persistence can be tricky when children don’t take no for an answer and push to get what they want. Its times like these that parent have a clear choice in how to manage a child’s persistence while also maintaining respectful communication that doesn’t break a child’s will and doesn’t drive a parent mad!
Daylight Savings Time - Fall Back
It’s that time of year: daylight savings time is near! How to prep for infants and toddlers, and how does the time change affect older kids who don’t necessarily need the same prep as younger kiddos?
Are emotions and feelings contagious?
Ever notice how one family member can feel stressed, anxious, or fearful and it’s as though the feelings were contagious, and other family members start to feel the same sort of emotion and dysregulation? Those are mirror neurons at work. Our feelings and moods are in some ways contagious! And children are just as susceptible to feeling parents or caregivers emotions and moods, as parents are susceptible to feeling our child’s dysregulation. So it’s important we stake steps to regulate our emotions and teach our children to do the same.